Roles In Your Relationship But Outside of D/s LB081

In episode 81, things are changing for both of us which means we have to re-evaluate how tasks get done around home and work. This week, we talk about the different roles we have as people and how that may or may not affect our kink.

In this episode:

  • Sign up for the Loving BDSM community. Videos are now available for paid members!
  • The reason for this episode – will be told in two parts. This week, we’re talking about how things are changing. Next week, we’ll talk about why they’re changing.
  • Some submissives fall into stereotypical roles of service in their relationship. I cook, clean, take care of the house, run the errands, and manage our home life.
  • Not for much longer.
  • Dominants (of any gender) can take on some of these roles, too, and it doesn’t make them less Dominant.
  • Our shift in roles kind of messes with my head.
  • We’re not sure what it will all look like.
  • One thought that comes to mind is, “Will I still feel submissive?”
  • The other, “What will I do to feel submissive instead?”

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5 Comments

  • Pixie

    Reply Reply May 7, 2017

    Ok so first 20 mins are EPIC! I was thinking your news was work / home related! had to stop listening cos Kitten got a tad frisky and attacked me! I may have to get both of you to do a sound bite of ‘Keep it kinky yall’ For her Birthday! 😉

    • Kayla Lords

      Reply Reply May 7, 2017

      Well, I’m glad you enjoyed the beginning…and then your own special ending, lol.

      • Pixie

        Reply Reply May 9, 2017

        Yup, very happy ending indeedy! lol. You and your daddy should do voice turn ons for kitten! Is the a fetish for voices and ascents?1

        pixie x

        • Kayla Lords

          Reply Reply May 9, 2017

          There’s a fetish for everything lol

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