The 5 Love Languages and Your D/s Relationship LB086

This week, in episode 86, we’re talking about the concept of the five love languages, as found in the book The 5 Love Languages by Dr. Gary Chapman, and how to apply them to your D/s relationship. In this episode: Our sponsor this week is Ecstatic Relaxation with Vin Charles. He’s got a special offer…

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The 5 Love Languages: Book Review

What language do you speak? Well, mostly, whatever language you grew up with or a combination of multiple languages. What love language do you speak? We have all heard the term “the language of love” yet many of us don’t know how to speak it. Yes, there is a language of love, and we all…

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Setting a Kinky Scene LB085

Setting a Kinky Scene LB085

This week, we’re answering a listener question with more details than they actually asked for. The original question was about how to set up a scene. In our opinion, a scene is whatever you make it, so it doesn’t have to be elaborate or high protocol. For us, we call most of our scenes “playtime.”…

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4 Different Types of Kinky Scenes

4 Types of Kinky Scenes

Kinky scenes are like labels – they mean something different to everyone. For us, a scene is just how we get kinky together. It could be some kinky fuckery in the bedroom or using equipment in our local BDSM dungeon. But your kinky scene could be something completely different – more elaborate, more well-planned, just…more.…

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Navigating a Long Distance D/s Relationship Part 2 LB084

In episode 84, we’re talking about how to make a long distance D/s relationship actually work. What you can do, how you handle the distance, and all the rest that can make LDRs so difficult. In this episode: Simpatic.US is our sponsor this week! Save 25 percent off with code LovingBDSM! Announcements: The website and…

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