When Your Kink Identity is Discovered LB082

When Your Kink Identity is Discovered LB082

After hyping it up too much and driving at least a few listeners crazy, here’s episode 82 of Loving BDSM. The one where we reveal what the hell happened – but the title probably says it all. *And at one point I tried to do math and said “26 years” and I meant “36 years.”…

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6 Types of Transitions in a D/s Relationship

6 Types of Transitions in a D/s Relationship

Everything changes in life. Sometimes because we make a change, sometimes because we have to roll with what life throws at us. To be fair, some changes feel like getting run over by a car or having a house land on our head. The point is that this perfect moment you’re having in your D/s…

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Roles In Your Relationship But Outside of D/s LB081

In episode 81, things are changing for both of us which means we have to re-evaluate how tasks get done around home and work. This week, we talk about the different roles we have as people and how that may or may not affect our kink. In this episode: Sign up for the Loving BDSM…

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7 Things Good Dominants Do

I’m not fond of the term “real” dominant as if another option is the “imaginary” Dom. In the context of figuring out who’s a fake/wannabe/poser Dom, who’s uneducated and has more to learn, and who the good Doms are, “real” is often the word we use. Let’s go with “good” instead, m’kay? Good Dominants Apologize…

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Emotional Impact of D/s and Kink

The Emotional Impact of Kink and D/s

Episode 80 started with a question on Twitter: If you could go back in time, what would you tell your younger self about kink? That started a discussion between us about the emotional impact of figuring out you’re kinky and that you want D/s in some form. You might be surprised but we each had…

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