7 Things Good Dominants Do

I’m not fond of the term “real” dominant as if another option is the “imaginary” Dom. In the context of figuring out who’s a fake/wannabe/poser Dom, who’s uneducated and has more to learn, and who the good Doms are, “real” is often the word we use. Let’s go with “good” instead, m’kay? Good Dominants Apologize…

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Emotional Impact of D/s and Kink

The Emotional Impact of Kink and D/s

Episode 80 started with a question on Twitter: If you could go back in time, what would you tell your younger self about kink? That started a discussion between us about the emotional impact of figuring out you’re kinky and that you want D/s in some form. You might be surprised but we each had…

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How Discovering Kink Made Me Feel

In some ways, looking back, I think the spark of kink was always in me. Discovering my kinky side wasn’t a straight line from there to here, and it wasn’t always easy. I got excited watching shows when the heroine was tied up by the bad guy. Later on, handcuffs were something I liked playing with…

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The Importance of Community LB079

The Importance of Community

Back for episode 79, Kayla Lords and John Brownstone discuss the importance of the kinky community. Plus hear more about the new website and the online Loving BDSM community! In this episode: Is the kinky community important? We think so Some people feel like it has to be in real life. Others prefer online communities.…

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5 Reasons to Join a Kinky Community

5 Reasons to Join a Kinky Community

When someone asks me, “Where do I meet a Dominant?” or “Where do I go to learn how to do bondage or cupping or…” (pick a kinky thing, any kinky thing,) my answer is always some variation of the same reply. Have you joined a community? Most of the time I mean the local kinky…

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