guest post by epona about why she's a masochist 0

Why I’m a Masochist

I’m not sure exactly when I realized I was a masochist but I always knew that I had an unusually high tolerance for pain. I was that kid that poked my bruises, licked my...

episode 161 of the Loving BDSM podcast discusses on being patient and slowing down 0

Going Slow and Having Patience in D/s Relationships

It might seem strange for a notoriously impatient person (Kayla, here!) to tell everyone else to be patient, but the world is a strange place. Also, in D/s relationships and new kinky experiences, patience...

all the ways we use panties as part of our kinky fuckery and D/s power exchange 4

How We Get Kinky with Panties

We’ve said it before, and we’ll say it again…anything can be kinky, and there are multiple ways to get kinky — with any single item. Thanks to inspiration from this week’s Kink of the...

episode 160 of the Loving BDSM podcast discusses sexual submission 0

Understanding Sexual Submission

Sexual submission is a huge part of our D/s relationship. While we know sex isn’t part of every power exchange, for many people, it’s central to it. It’s unique to all of us, but...