Drama in the BDSM Community LB104

episode 104 about drama in the BDSM community

This week, in episode 104, we’re addressing a concern that several people have come to us with – what do you do when there’s drama in the BDSM community and it makes you not want to participate? We don’t have a step-by-step list to fix an overly dramatic situation, but we try to provide solutions, tactics, and new ideas to try so that you can have the best BDSM community experience possible – without the drama.

In this episode:

  • The website is back up. A huge thank you and shout-out to @DomSigns – find him on Twitter!
  • You can save 15% off the Crescendo by Mystery Vibe with our special link.
  • Drama happens wherever people gather – it’s unavoidable.
  • There are multiple ways to deal with drama – you have to find what works best for you.
  • Not every community is the right one for you. Look for or create the one that fits you best. 
  • Don’t give up – you can find your tribe, even if they’re online or you have to make it yourself.

Links from the show:

Save 15% off the Crescendo by Mystery Vibe (affiliate link – if you make a purchase, we make a commission that will fuel our coffee addiction)

How to Deal with Drama in the BDSM Community

The Importance of Community – Episode 79

The Importance of Having Kinky Friends – Episode 22

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3 Comments

  • elahenara

    Reply Reply October 25, 2017

    Listening to this episode made me so grateful that lucked out with my community. I actually have a group of friends, now! A group of geeky, kinky, fun people that i never would have met, otherwise.

    • Kayla Lords

      Reply Reply November 1, 2017

      I’m glad you did, too! And yay for kinky groups of friends. 🙂

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