Category: Submissives

It’s not always easy knowing how to navigate your D/s relationship or the kink life as a submissive. Between predators, uneducated Dominants, and whatever societal expectations you may have been taught, it’s not always easy to know what to do, who to trust, or how to be your submissive self in a healthy way.

As the one who serves and gives up control, submissives are in a very vulnerable position. That doesn’t mean you shouldn’t be who you are or enjoy the D/s or BDSM life to the fullest. But you do need to educate yourself in order to stay safe. Here you’ll find articles geared specifically to submissives — to help you stay safe, help you navigate your D/s relationship in a healthy way, and help you be the best submissive you can be.

episode 233 of the Loving BDSM podcast 0

Reactive, Proactive, and Anticipatory Service

There are multiple ways of talking about submission, power exchange, and service (non-sexual and sexual). In this week’s episode, we take inspiration from a workbook by Luna Carruthers entitled Submissive Reflection: A Journey of...

episode 209 of the Loving BDSM podcast discusses SAMs, brats, and sassy submissives 0

SAMs, Brats, and Sassy Submissives

How did it take us 200-plus episodes to FINALLY discuss smart-ass masochists (SAMs), brats, and sassy submissives? We don’t know either! But here we are! In this episode: Subscribe to our newsletter! What is...