Category: Episodes

This is the full archive of every Loving BDSM episode we’ve ever produced. We began in August 2015 and with a few short breaks (2-4 weeks at a time) we’ve been going strong ever since.

There is no rhyme or reason to the order of our topics. We discuss what matters to us in our D/s relationship and BDSM experience, but we also happily accept topic suggestions from listeners.

Starting around episode 53, we began to end every show with a “bonus section” to help keep Kayla from going off-topic so much, and now have an entire group of “proud crickets” who listen to that part every week. That’s when we talk about our lives and things we’re doing.

A listener once said that the Loving BDSM podcast is like sitting around the kitchen table, having coffee, and chatting with friends. And that’s a perfect definition to us. We hope to keep that vibe going for a long time.

Whether you’re new to BDSM and D/s or you’ve been doing it a long time, we think there’s something here to help you on your kinky journey.

episode 170 of the Loving BDSM podcast discusses anger in D/s relationships 0

Anger in D/s Relationships

Content warning: we very briefly touch on anger in abusive situations and the way that anger can trigger negative reactions in ourselves. If today isn’t the day for you to hear about that, skip...

episode 169 of the Loving BDSM podcast 0

What One Dominant Thinks About

This week, we took topic ideas from our kinky patrons on Patreon, and several asked questions about what Dominants are thinking about at different times. Since we can’t speak for all Dominants, we decided...

episode 168 of the Loving BDSM podcast discusses why our kinky community is so important to us 0

This is Why You Need a Community

Things got wiiiiiiiild when we came back from London, so of course we’re going to talk about it. You may one day be shamed or judged for your kinks or the things you’re into....

episode 167 of the Loving BDSM podcast discusses visiting BDSM dungeons when you travel 0

Visiting BDSM Dungeons When You Travel

In episode 167, we take help from a kinky patron’s suggestion. Cdc asked if you can visit BDSM dungeons in other cities and areas when you travel. And if you do, how that might...