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The Mystery Episode…It’s a Mystery to Us, Too LB126

For the record, this episode was a complete mystery to us. We turned on the mic and just started talking. No notes, no plan, and no topic. It’s been that kind of week.

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Sex and D/s Relationships LB125

Not every D/s relationship includes sex, but for those that do, we’re talking about it in a free-wheeling, no notes or plan kind of way for episode 125.

In this episode:

Much love to our sponsor VRPorn.com!

Sex, sex, and sex.

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D/s isn’t About Sex, It’s About Power

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When Communication Isn’t Enough LB124

In episode 124, we take on the tricky topic of what to do when you’ve communicated and communicated and communicated…and it changes nothing in your D/s relationship.

In this episode:

  • Much love to this week’s sponsor VRPorn.com — the number one virtual reality porn site in the world!
  • We received a question on Twitter about what to do when you’ve talked as much as you can. You’ve said everything and had the conversations.
  • You’re being ignored.
  • Promised changes aren’t happening.
  • What do you do?
  • You make difficult decisions. And there’s no one right answer.
  • Maybe it’s that the D/s dynamic isn’t right with this partner. Or maybe the specific D/s dynamic you’re pursuing isn’t the right one.
  • Maybe they don’t need to be your partner anymore — a harsh reality that has to be faced by some people at some point.

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A Conversation with Amy of Coffee and Kink LB123

While in London at Eroticon, we took advantage of the fact that we were on the same continent with Amy of Coffee and Kink to sit down for a chat with her. If we could have, we would have happily had conversations with several other people in London, as well, but for our first, we’re so glad to introduce you to Amy.

Small content warning: Mentions of abuse in BDSM (nothing too heavy, but take care of yourself, as always)

In this episode:

  • We’re recording with a cup of coffee, as we should be!
  • Amy discusses her relationships and kinks.
  • She’s a writer, too!
  • Read her work! Follow her! Amy is awesome!!

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Amy of Coffee and Kink – website

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Read: Abuse, D/s, and the Art of Knowing the Difference by Amy of Coffee and Kink

Read: [Guest Post] Forget Perfection, Bring Me the Glory – Life as a Disabled Kinkster by Pippin Strange

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Complacency in D/s Relationships LB122

In episode 122, we let a rant from John Brownstone and a question from a listener inspire us. People get complacent when they get comfortable or when life gets in the way. It happens in D/s and vanilla relationships. The important thing isn’t that it’ll happen. It’s what you’ll do about it.

In this episode:

  • Reminder: We’re on hiatus until March 30 (just two weeks).
  • For Kinky Fuckery members, the March submissive meeting is Saturday, March 10 at 8pm EST.
  • John Brownstone is leading this month’s Kinky Book Club discussion in the forum.
  • Finally, a show idea from a John Brownstone rant!
  • The listener question got us thinking about complacency – something that can and does happen in any relationship.
  • The only real fix is communication. You’ve got to talk about it.

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They Were Both Subs by Julie Knispel

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