Category: Episodes

This is the full archive of every Loving BDSM episode we’ve ever produced. We began in August 2015 and with a few short breaks (2-4 weeks at a time) we’ve been going strong ever since.

There is no rhyme or reason to the order of our topics. We discuss what matters to us in our D/s relationship and BDSM experience, but we also happily accept topic suggestions from listeners.

Starting around episode 53, we began to end every show with a “bonus section” to help keep Kayla from going off-topic so much, and now have an entire group of “proud crickets” who listen to that part every week. That’s when we talk about our lives and things we’re doing.

A listener once said that the Loving BDSM podcast is like sitting around the kitchen table, having coffee, and chatting with friends. And that’s a perfect definition to us. We hope to keep that vibe going for a long time.

Whether you’re new to BDSM and D/s or you’ve been doing it a long time, we think there’s something here to help you on your kinky journey.

episode 234 of the Loving BDSM podcast 0

On Being a Fixer in a D/s Relationship

We’ve mentioned in multiple episodes some of the problems and challenges that happen in any relationship when you’re a “fixer” (as we are). This week, let’s talk about it in more detail! In this...

episode 233 of the Loving BDSM podcast 0

Reactive, Proactive, and Anticipatory Service

There are multiple ways of talking about submission, power exchange, and service (non-sexual and sexual). In this week’s episode, we take inspiration from a workbook by Luna Carruthers entitled Submissive Reflection: A Journey of...