Category: Episodes

This is the full archive of every Loving BDSM episode we’ve ever produced. We began in August 2015 and with a few short breaks (2-4 weeks at a time) we’ve been going strong ever since.

There is no rhyme or reason to the order of our topics. We discuss what matters to us in our D/s relationship and BDSM experience, but we also happily accept topic suggestions from listeners.

Starting around episode 53, we began to end every show with a “bonus section” to help keep Kayla from going off-topic so much, and now have an entire group of “proud crickets” who listen to that part every week. That’s when we talk about our lives and things we’re doing.

A listener once said that the Loving BDSM podcast is like sitting around the kitchen table, having coffee, and chatting with friends. And that’s a perfect definition to us. We hope to keep that vibe going for a long time.

Whether you’re new to BDSM and D/s or you’ve been doing it a long time, we think there’s something here to help you on your kinky journey.

in episode 164, we discuss repressing your D/s identity and why that's not a good thing 0

Repressing Your Kinky Identity

This week’s topic comes straight from one of our kinky patrons — RaxLeanne! She shared her experience of repressing her kinky self in her relationship, and how it didn’t work out well. John Brownstone...

episode 162 of the Loving BDSM podcast discusses strengths in D/s 0

Developing Your Strengths in D/s and BDSM

When you hear the word “strength,” what comes to mind? All kinds of things, probably. This week, we’re taking you on our winding conversation through what it means to be strong as a submissive,...

episode 161 of the Loving BDSM podcast discusses on being patient and slowing down 0

Going Slow and Having Patience in D/s Relationships

It might seem strange for a notoriously impatient person (Kayla, here!) to tell everyone else to be patient, but the world is a strange place. Also, in D/s relationships and new kinky experiences, patience...

episode 160 of the Loving BDSM podcast discusses sexual submission 0

Understanding Sexual Submission

Sexual submission is a huge part of our D/s relationship. While we know sex isn’t part of every power exchange, for many people, it’s central to it. It’s unique to all of us, but...