Reactive, Proactive, and Anticipatory Service

There are multiple ways of talking about submission, power exchange, and service (non-sexual and sexual). In this week’s episode, we take inspiration from a workbook by Luna Carruthers entitled Submissive Reflection: A Journey of Rediscovery & Affirmation. The concept of reactive, proactive, and anticipatory service is discussed, and we have thoughts!

In this episode:

  • This week’s episode inspired by Submissive Reflection: A Journey of Rediscovery and Affirmation by Luna Carruthers of Submissive Guide — we reviewed this. 
  • Proactive service
  • Reactive service
  • Anticipatory service
  • The good and the bad
  • Finding what works for both partners

Thanks to our shout-out level patrons: Cdc, Chris A., Fairy, B, Jessica G., and Mr. Spock

Links from the episode:

Review of Submissive Reflection (YouTube video)

Friday night (September 11) YouTube Live Stream at 9:30PM EDT (video will not be available after the stream)

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