Our Top Tips for BDSM Communication

We talk about communication ALL THE TIME, but rarely in one episode. This definitely isn’t everything, but if you struggle with communication, this may help you out a bit.

In this episode:

  • Announcement: Friday night YouTube live stream is at 9:30 p.m. EST
  • Announcement: The Patreon Live Q&A for May will be Saturday, May 23 at 1:00 p.m. EST
  • Announcement: We will live stream on YouTube to celebrate 3000+ subscribers at the end of May. More details to come.
  • It’s not just that you listen but HOW you listen — finding out what the person sharing information needs from you (advice, support, vent)
  • Communication is a skill that must be practiced
  • There is no single “right” way to communicate. If you need to write or record it so you say it without your partner looking at you, go ahead!
  • Tips for safewords and checking in during kinky scenes
  • Don’t listen to respond. Listen to your partner to really hear what they’re saying.

Shout-out to patrons: Cdc, Chris A., Sir&her78, Janie K., B, Devoted Cricket, and Jessica G.

Links from the episode:

Friday night (May 22) YouTube Live Stream at 9:30PM EST (video may not be available after the stream)

Tongue-Tied by Stella Harris (Amazon link — NOT an affiliate link)

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