Being Friends First in D/s Relationships

This week’s topic was inspired by a conversation with one of our kinky patrons who decided to focus on friends in the kink community while she’s single. While “friends first” isn’t a requirement for a successful D/s relationship, it definitely helped us. So we’re talking about it.

In this episode:

  • We were friends first before we started out D/s relationship
  • When we began in D/s, it was very gradual
  • It took a while to realize KL wanted more than friendship with JB
  • Is it “better” to be friends first and let it grow organically into D/s? It depends on a lot of things. 
  • There’s no single right way to start a D/s relationship, but for long-term relationships, friendship should be in the mix somewhere.

Shout-out to our Patrons: Cdc, Chris A., Sir&her78, Janie K., B, Devoted Cricket, and Jessica G.

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