When You’re Afraid of Change in Your D/s Relationship

Being afraid (or overly cautious) about change is extremely common. Some people just don’t handle change well, while others want to feel in control of the changes that happen to them. We received a question from a listener who asked what to do about changing their D/s from bedroom only to a 24/7 dynamic. Their specific concern was that things were great as they were — what if the change ruined everything? We had thoughts.

In this episode:

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  • Being concerned about change is valid.
  • Commit only to trying. 
  • As the person wanting the change, understand that the thing you want might not work out.

Links from the episode:

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Going Slow and Having Patience (podcast)

6 Types of Transition in D/s (blog post)

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