Consenting to Activities You Don’t Love But Your Partner Does

This is kind of a weird one. It can be an overwhelmingly fun experience and an opportunity for growth when you do something your partner enjoys that you wouldn’t necessarily choose for yourself. On the other hand, it can also be a sign of toxicity in a relationship. As always, it’s complicated and there’s no single right answer to this one.

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  • Consenting to something you don’t really enjoy but know your partner wants — it’s a personal choice
  • Both partners need to get their needs met, so this shouldn’t be the only kind of activity you do together
  • Communication — before, during, and after — is mandatory
  • Open yourself up to new experiences and new connections
  • Be mindful of manipulation from a bad partner
  • This shouldn’t violate your hard limits.

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