When Your D/s is Out of Sync

Earlier this week, we were out of sync — we weren’t in tune with each other in terms of kink. John Brownstone went too hard, too fast, and I didn’t speak up when I should have to say I needed something else. It made for a temporary mess. If it happens to us, it happens to everyone else (eventually). So we’re talking about that out of sync feeling — whether it’s from a lack of communication, added stress, or anything else!

In this episode:

  • This week’s episode is sponsored by The Cage — a BDSM community made for kinky people by kinky people.
  • A dominant exerts control but the submissive doesn’t respond like usual.
  • A submissive desperately wants to give up control, but the dominant isn’t able to take control.
  • It happens in kinky fuckery, too.
  • Communicate
  • Be patient — look at what’s going on in life
  • Enjoy the things where you ARE in sync

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2 Responses

  1. Shyla says:

    Loved listening to this needed the fun back & forth giggling. Thank you both.

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