Feeling Dominant or Submissive When You’re Single LB149

This week, we’re talking about what it means (and how you can) feel your Dominant or submissive when you’re single. For many of us, D/s is an inherent part of who we are and how we express ourselves. While many of us would prefer to express that side of ourselves in a healthy, happy relationship, it’s possible to get in touch with that part of yourself when you’re single, too.

In this episode:

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  • This episode was suggested by Princess Rara on Twitter. She asked specifically about how to feel submissive when you’re single. We wrote about that in a blog post, but we wanted to talk about both sides of the slash.
  • Feeling Dom or sub outside of a relationship is, in part, about whether you see that as a role you play sometimes or an inherent part of who you are.
  • If it’s an inherent part of who you are, there are a lot of things you can do — but only if they help. If it just depresses you to do, don’t do it.
  • Ideas for submissives
  • Ideas for Dominants
  • Why it matters

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6 Ways to Feel Submissive When You’re Single (blog post)

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