What It’s Like to Be Poly and a 24/7 Dominant LB139

Thanks to our amazing friend, Professor Sex, for suggesting this week’s topic: a Dom’s take on navigating non-monogamy while maintaining a 24/7 D/s relationship. We identify as poly, and just as with everything else, it exists on a spectrum. This is our perspective.

In this episode:

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  • This topic was requested by our friend Professor Sex. She asked us to discuss a Dom’s take on navigating non-monogamy while maintaining a 24/7 D/s relationship.
  • What does non-monogamy mean? It’s an umbrella term that includes polyamory but also other relationship types like swinging and open relationships.
  • We consider ourselves poly even if it’s only happening on one side — for right now — because of our emotional connection to everyone. Even if Kayla’s not strictly involved, she cares about JB’s partners and wants their needs fulfilled, too.
  • Kayla wrote about her perspective of what it’s like to be a 24/7 submissive with a polyamorous Dominant.
  • Challenges and things to adjust to:
    • Juggling multiple needs
    • Making sure no one feels neglected
    • Not being stretched too thin
  • Each relationship is different and fulfills different needs.

Links from the show:

On Being a 24/7 Submissive with a Polyamorous Dominant (blog post)

The Wood Dom

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5 Responses

  1. slave sindee says:

    nicely done

  2. Rachel says:

    I have absolutely fallen in love with your show and have gone back to the beginning to listen to them all!!! (Yes even before the infamous microphone purchase hehe)

    Just wanted to give a huge … keep it kinky

  1. May 7, 2019

    […] If you’re confused, we have an open relationship…consensual non-monogamy?…polyamorous? I can’t really keep up with the “right” term to use, but basically, we’re comfortable with the other having partners outside of our marriage and D/s power exchange. […]

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