Complacency in D/s Relationships LB122

In episode 122, we let a rant from John Brownstone and a question from a listener inspire us. People get complacent when they get comfortable or when life gets in the way. It happens in D/s and vanilla relationships. The important thing isn’t that it’ll happen. It’s what you’ll do about it.

In this episode:

  • Reminder: We’re on hiatus until March 30 (just two weeks).
  • For Kinky Fuckery members, the March submissive meeting is Saturday, March 10 at 8pm EST.
  • John Brownstone is leading this month’s Kinky Book Club discussion in the forum.
  • Finally, a show idea from a John Brownstone rant!
  • The listener question got us thinking about complacency – something that can and does happen in any relationship.
  • The only real fix is communication. You’ve got to talk about it.

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They Were Both Subs by Julie Knispel (blog post)

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