In episode 112, we’re talking about getting back into D/s and BDSM after you’ve been away for a while, whether it’s been a year or a decade.

In this episode:

  • Maybe you stopped because of break up
  • You might have hated the drama in your local community or where you were online
  • Maybe you had to deal with other parts of your life and D/s or BDSM took a back seat
  • You may still be in a relationship with your partner and want to re-introduce D/s or kink back into things.
  • Things aren’t as different as you think.
  • Treat yourself a little bit like a newbie but realize you do still know things.
  • Practice, practice, practice your kinky fuckery
  • If in a relationship, deal with any communication issues, bad feelings, lack of trust before you get back into D/s – D/s won’t fix those problems, only enhance them.
  • Join your community – locally or online
  • Research and read (or listen)

Links from the show:

2018 Loving BDSM Survey

When You’re Easing Your Way Back Into D/s and BDSM

Understanding Bad Tapes in Your D/s Relationship (episode 101)

Watts the Safeword (YouTube channel)

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