Drama in the BDSM Community LB104

This week, in episode 104, we’re addressing a concern that several people have come to us with – what do you do when there’s drama in the BDSM community and it makes you not want to participate? We don’t have a step-by-step list to fix an overly dramatic situation, but we try to provide solutions, tactics, and new ideas to try so that you can have the best BDSM community experience possible – without the drama.

In this episode:

  • The website is back up. A huge thank you and shout-out to @DomSigns – find him on Twitter!
  • You can save 15 percent off the Crescendo by Mystery Vibe with our special link.
  • Drama happens wherever people gather – it’s unavoidable.
  • There are multiple ways to deal with drama – you have to find what works best for you.
  • Not every community is the right one for you. Look for or create the one that fits you best. 
  • Don’t give up – you can find your tribe, even if they’re online or you have to make it yourself.

Links from the show:

Save 15 percent off the Crescendo by Mystery Vibe (affiliate link – if you make a purchase, we make a commission that will fuel our coffee addiction)

How to Deal with Drama in the BDSM Community

The Importance of Community – Episode 79

The Importance of Having Kinky Friends – Episode 22

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3 Responses

  1. elahenara says:

    Listening to this episode made me so grateful that lucked out with my community. I actually have a group of friends, now! A group of geeky, kinky, fun people that i never would have met, otherwise.

  1. November 14, 2017

    […] Drama in the BDSM comunity , Loving BDSM. This one was kind of said what we all want to say about people bringing drama in to a D/s or kink environment. It really was wicked for people to actually say what we thought , but out loud for a change. lol basically the advise is just to deal with it calmly , talk to people, find your on fit , speak up or to someone as needed , and for everyone to just try the hardest to get the fuck a long! Little Pixie loved this on and she giggled the whole way through, so a Big thank you to Kayla and John! x […]

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