This week, we’re talking about BDSM scenes again but this time, the focus is on what happens when good BDSM scenes go bad and how to prevent most problems before they happen.

In this episode:

  • Check out our Redbubble shop for Loving BDSM merchandise especially if “Coffee is your love language!”
  • Not every BDSM scene will go according to plan.
  • Prevention is the best medicine – enthusiastic and informed consent, being honest about limits, emotional triggers.
  • Even with best intentions, things can still go wrong. Don’t panic. Remain calm.
  • Check on each other.
  • Talk about what happened.
  • If you feel up for it, keep going or try again later.
  • You’re not a failure if your kinky idea didn’t go the way you expect it to.

Links from the show:

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4 Ways Your BDSM Scene Can Accidentally Go Wrong (blog post)

Setting a Kinky Scene (episode 85)

4 Different Types of Kinky Scenes (blog post)

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