We didn’t know a lot of people had feelings about this topic until we mentioned in on the blog and on Twitter. Episode 90 focuses on topping from the bottom – what it is, what it isn’t, and what to do about it.

In this episode:

  • Kayla’s books on Smashwords are half off with coupon code SSW50 through the end of July
  • What is topping from the bottom?
  • What it isn’t
  • How people feel about the concept
  • Before you diagnose topping from the bottom think about why it might be happening
  • Lack of trust or fear could be the cause
  • Some people want power taken away from them, and it can appear to be topping from the bottom
  • If a Dominant feels out of control, the sub may be topping from the bottom
  • What to do about it? The answer is always to communicate. Only at that point can you decide what the next step is.
  • Brats, smartass masochists, and sass – is any of this topping from the bottom? Not necessarily.

Links from the show:

Buy Kayla’s Books on Smashwords – use code SSW50 thru 7/31/17

6 Things that Aren’t Topping from the Bottom

Kinky Book Club

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