Orgasm Control in D/s Relationships LB076

John Brownstone is back with Kayla this week for a new episode! There may have been squeeing. This week’s topic is all about orgasm control.

In this episode:

  • I’m giving away a Crescendo vibrator from Mystery Vibe!
  • Orgasm control isn’t for every D/s relationship.
  • It happens on a spectrum from light to extreme.
  • Forced orgasms are my personal favorite and can be done in different ways.
  • Edged orgasms aren’t for everyone but can turn into a huge climax at the end.
  • Orgasm denial happens in a variety of ways from delaying an orgasm to total chastity for a certain amount of time.
  • Having permission to orgasm or masturbate (or even touch yourself) is all part of orgasm control.
  • We got postcards!

Postcard address: PO Box 391, Crystal Beach, FL 34681

Links from the Show:

Crescendo Giveaway (open until 11:59pm on March 15)


Original Magic Wand (affiliate link)

Prostate Massage

Postcard Shoutout: Big Daddy Mage and Beautiful Babygirl; The Artful Mother: Twitter and blog

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3 Responses

  1. Elbs says:

    I have those stomach cramps too! I can’t seem to orgasm from reading fetish fics (which turn me on) or masturbation (which actually turns me off). I try to avoid getting myself too aroused because I don’t seem to have any release, so it will hurt.

    • Kayla Lords says:

      For years I couldn’t understand why I got cramps after sex – until I made the connection. I can handle edging and orgasm denial with JB most of the time, but in general, I don’t like getting overly aroused without release…it’s not worth the pain.

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