In episode 72, Kayla admits to having a major meltdown and tantrum as a babygirl, and John Brownstone talks about how he handles those moments as a Daddy Dom. Even if you don’t identify as DD/lg, you might find something to relate to in this episode.

In this episode:

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  • I had a total babygirl tantrum – crying, whining, pouting – it wasn’t pretty.
  • I’m about to show the good and negative sides of my babygirl self because I trust John Brownstone.
  • But it’s not easy to deal with.
  • Letting out the negative emotions is cathartic even as I’m wondering, “What the hell is wrong with me?”
  • John Brownstone was indulgent – to a point.
  • When I went too far, he laid down the law, which helped me get out of that space.
  • During negative babygirl moments, like tantrums, sexual touch is completely unwanted – even though I don’t think to use my safeword.
  • It’s important for Dominants to learn their littles so you can figure out what works best for your partner. Some need indulging. Some need a firm hand. Everyone is unique.

Links from the show:

What’s the Difference Between a Daddy and a Sir? (podcast)

Making the Switch to a Daddy Dom/little Dynamic (podcast)

What a Daddy Dom/Little Girl Relationship is Really Like (Kinkly)

Being a Daddy or Little isn’t About Children (Kinkly)

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