Difficult Conversations in D/s Relationships LB071

Kayla Lords and John Brownstone host episode 71 and talk about a recent hard conversation they had to have, how it helped, and why these conversations are important in D/s relationships.

In this episode:

  • This week’s episode sponsored by The Butters lube
  • Recently, I had to confess a few concerns and fears I had about our relationship
  • I worried that I might be wrong and would feel silly.
  • I worried I might be right and then I’d have to deal with the outcome.
  • He listened and we didn’t try to “fix” anything in one conversation. We came back to it later after he’d had time to think about things.
  • At the end, we decided to stick with what worked but promised to make changes if it became necessary.
  • It’s better to talk about something when it feels small than waiting for it to become a giant issue.
  • Sometimes our head makes us think things that aren’t true.
  • We stay silent out of fear – not good.
  • Both sides need to be able to say how they’re feeling, even if it’s difficult, and even if it upsets the other person.
  • We got a postcard!

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6 Hard Conversations You Need to Have in D/s

Monogamish: The New Rules of Marriage

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  1. May 9, 2018

    […] talked about the difficult conversations you need to have in your D/s relationship before. Everyone goes through them and has to face some […]

  2. October 22, 2018

    […] Difficult Conversations in D/s Relationships (episode 71) […]

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