Kayla Lords and John Brownstone host episode 71 and talk about a recent hard conversation they had to have, how it helped, and why these conversations are important in D/s relationships.
In this episode:
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- Recently, I had to confess a few concerns and fears I had about our relationship
- I worried that I might be wrong and would feel silly.
- I worried I might be right and then I’d have to deal with the outcome.
- He listened and we didn’t try to “fix” anything in one conversation. We came back to it later after he’d had time to think about things.
- At the end, we decided to stick with what worked but promised to make changes if it became necessary.
- It’s better to talk about something when it feels small than waiting for it to become a giant issue.
- Sometimes our head makes us think things that aren’t true.
- We stay silent out of fear – not good.
- Both sides need to be able to say how they’re feeling, even if it’s difficult, and even if it upsets the other person.
- We got a postcard!
Our mailing address (for the postcard project) is PO Box 391, Crystal Beach, Florida, 34681
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