When Your Kinky Wants and Needs Change LB055

Kayla Lords and John Brownstone host episode 55 and talk about how expectations, wants, and needs in your D/s relationship can change over time – and what to do when that happens. And they clear up what all that “edging” was about at the end of episode 54.

In this episode:

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  • I asked for a change in something John Brownstone said was a “must have” of us, and he agreed to consider it.
  • Over time, what you want, need, and expect in your D/s relationship can and will change.
  • Changes happen for a lot of reasons. We change because the reality vs. the fantasy is never the same. We change because we mature. We change because of health issues.
  • The important thing is to communicate your desire or need for that change with your partner.
  • If your partner asks for something you’re not comfortable doing, you can look for options outside of your relationship.
  • If your partner says “No” to the change you’re asking for, you’ll have to decide if it’s something you can live without or not. There are no easy answers.
  • Communication is always the starting point. Understanding, compromise, and sometimes trust are needed to deal with the changes.
  • Bonus section: An idea occurred to me during this portion, and I reeeeeeeeally need your feedback.

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