Make Your Kinky New Year’s Resolutions LB019

Kayla Lords and John Brownstone host a special New Year’s Day episode dedicated to kinky resolutions – from silly to serious.

In this show:

  • Kayla shares her resolution ideas for submissives.
  • John shares his resolution ideas for Dominants.
  • Dominants: Try not to laugh too hard when your submissive squeals when you pinch, smack, or spank them.
  • Submissives: Try not to wiggle your ass, wink, and ask your Dominant, “Is that all you’ve got?”
  • Dominants: Practice your toy technique more so you don’t rusty or tired in the middle of play.
  • Submissives: Expand your limits a little.
  • Dominants: Mind fuck your submissive with soft, gentle touches when they’re expecting harder, rougher stuff.
  • Submissives: Go to a local munch this year.
  • Dominants: Make more time to sit and listen to your submissive.
  • Submissives: Learn to speak up more often, especially when things aren’t great.
  • Dominants: Stop thinking you have to be good at kink and D/s every moment.
  • Submissives: Stop trying to be perfect and feeling like a failure when you aren’t.
  • A personal resolution from John Brownstone is to get back to kinky fun and play and try new things this year.
  • Kayla’s final resolution: Do the thing that makes you most nervous – let your babygirl/boy side out, try a new sex act, experiment with your Dominant side, whatever it is, do it in 2016.

Happy New Year’s! Let’s kick 2016’s ass!

Listen on YouTube

Full Transcript:

You’re listening to Loving BDSM podcast: episode 19. Happy New Year’s and welcome to 2016! Hey, everybody. Kayla Lords here with the always entertaining and sadistic John Brownstone! Welcome to the Loving BDSM podcast. If this is your first time listening, glad to have you! If you’re back for another week, welcome back! Loving BDSM is produced every Friday for your kinky pleasure and education and show notes are found at kaylalords.com. Come back often and feel free to add the podcast to your favorite RSS feed or iTunes. If you love what you hear, we’d love a good review on iTunes to help other kinksters find us! You can follow me on Twitter @KaylaLords or stalk John Brownstone at southernsirsplace.com. All links are in the show notes.

Another quickie show this week. We’re not really wham-bam-thank-you-sir-or-ma’am types, but it’s the holidays and we know everyone is busy.

We don’t party on New Year’s Eve and we rarely make resolutions. Personally, I like to set new goals, which can be treated like resolutions, but they’re a little different. For those of you who use the first day of the new year to find a way to start over, make changes, or add something new to your life, we’d like to present our wild, wacky, and only partially serious kinky New Year’s resolutions for your consideration.

I’ll share resolutions for submissives, and Daddy will share for the Dominants. Take these as seriously or as lightly as you like, and if anyone actually makes one of these your resolution, please let us know!

Okay, here we go. Daddy, you first…

JB: Ok, first resolution for Dominants: Try not to laugh too hard when your submissive squeals when you pinch, smack, or spank them.

K: Can’t y’all just resolve not to do it as evilly as you do? Either the laughing or the pinching?

Okay, submissives, for you – try not to wiggle your ass, wink, and then say, “Is that all you’ve got?”

JB: Aw, where’s the fun in that?

Doms: Resolve to practice your toy technique so you don’t get rusty or tired in the middle of play.

K: I can get behind that one. Subs, resolve to expand your limits and boundaries a little. No doubt your Dominant is probably helping with this. Instead of screeching, squealing, or hiding in the corner, take a deep breath, talk it out, and then try something you’re a little scared of.

Daddy?

JB: Doms, resolve to surprise the hell out of your submissive with softer touches. They’re prepared for a rough time, and you pull out the roses and silk and sweet loving.

K: Are you encouraging soft loving making as a mind fuck, Daddy?

JB: Yes. Yes, I am.

K: You are such a sadist!

My turn! On a more serious note, whether you’re single or in a relationship, make this the year you find and go to your local munch. It might be awkward when you get there, but it really does help you meet new people, learn new things, and feel like you’re not the only freaky, kinky person in town.

JB: Very good, babygirl. For my Dominant listeners, make more time to sit and listen to your submissive. Yes, you make the rules, set the boundaries, and decide what to do – but you can’t do it without their input.

K: I like that one, Daddy.

Subs, make yourself speak up. Even if your Dominant isn’t setting aside extra time, when there’s a problem, make this the year you start saying something.

JB: Doms, stop thinking you’re supposed to be good at kink and D/s every moment of the day. You’re going to screw up. Own it, correct it, and learn from it.

K: Subs, you’re not perfect either and no one should expect it from you. This year needs to be the year you forgive yourself a little more.

Wow, when did we veer into serious advice territory? Okay, one more resolution, and then it’s time to start kicking 2016 ass!

Daddy?

JB: This is a personal resolution. It’s time to get back to playing with toys and doing things we’ve haven’t in a long time – like rope play, as well as trying new things like wax play.

K: I like that! My last resolution for the submissives listening is to do the thing that makes you both excited and nervous. Maybe it’s letting a babygirl (or boy) side out. Maybe it’s getting in touch with your Dominant side. Maybe it’s pegging your partner, playing in a dungeon, or wearing the corset you think will look silly on you (it won’t). Whatever it is, do it this year. Expand your horizons. You have no idea how it may change your life.

Okay, y’all, that’s it for us. Have a great New Year, keep it kinky, and we’ll see you next week!

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed.