A Few of Our Favorite Sex Toys LB017

Late for Hanukkah and almost too late for Christmas, Kayla Lords hosts this week’s episode and discusses favorite toys for sexy, kinky fun that make great gifts to surprise your partner with – no matter what the gift-giving occasion may be.

In this episode:

  • Sponsorships are available for companies with a kinky product or service to promote. Contact Kayla for more information.
  • Kayla lists toys she and John Brownstone use and love, in no particular order:
  • The Original Magic Wand – also known as the toy that makes her gush like a geyser
  • Suede Floggers – providing both the thudding pain she prefers and the stings that raise welts
  • Paddles – wooden and rubber paddles, both with different sensations for ass destruction
  • Delrin Cane – John’s favorite. Kayla just likes the marks and bruises it leaves behind
  • Glass Dildos – great for sensation play and come in all kinds of shapes and sizes, including tentacles
  • Nipple Charms – pretty and decadent, they allow you to decorate you or your partner’s boobs
  • Lube – whether for anal or because your body isn’t producing enough of it’s own, lubricant is something to have on hand.

Links from Show:

Original Magic Wand

Suede Floggers: Black and White Large Floggers (not pictured) and Purple Flogger (ours is darker purple)

Paddles: Rubber Paddle (different color), this one is discontinued, but the site has a ton of different options for rubber paddles.

Delrin Cane

Glass Dildo – I didn’t buy it at this site, but this is what one of our glass dildos looks like.

Pink Lubricant

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You’re listening to Loving BDSM podcast: episode 17. Today’s episode is for those last minute holiday shoppers or someone who’s looking for their next toy. Hey, everybody. Kayla Lords here! Welcome to the Loving BDSM podcast. If this is your first time listening, glad to have you! If you’re back for another week, welcome back! Loving BDSM is produced every Friday for your kinky pleasure and education and show notes are found at kaylalords.com. Come back often and feel free to add the podcast to your favorite RSS feed or iTunes. If you love what you hear, we’d love a good review on iTunes to help other kinksters find us! You can follow me on Twitter @KaylaLords or stalk John Brownstone at southernsirsplace.com. All links are in the show notes.

No sponsor for today’s show because neither Daddy nor I want to be obnoxious and sell our own stuff all the time. That’s just spammy and no one wants that. But this is a reminder that kinky businesses with hot and erotic products or services can sponsor the show. Contact me at kayla lords at gmail dot com or click the link in the show notes to get more information.

Let’s get to the show!

For the past few weeks, I’ve been meaning to put together a list of our favorite sex toys and accessories in the bedroom to help newer kinksters find new things to try and to help anyone who wants to buy something a little unexpected for their partner this holiday season. We’re a week out from Christmas and Hanukkah is already over. But there’s a bright side (because there always is) – you’ve got time to make your Valentine’s Day a little sexier and kinkier. I’d like to make this list an annual thing based on new toys we try during the year, but for this first one, I’m sticking with our tried and true favorite things to use in the bedroom. Links to learn more about these toys and products are in the show notes.

In no particular order, let’s talk sex toys!

I say no particular order, but probably my favorite toy of all is my Hitachi, otherwise known as the Original Magic Wand. There are plenty of knock-offs and I know people like those, but I love, love, LOVE my Hitachi. It has two settings – they call one quote low but they lie and the other setting is holy fucking shit I think I just exploded, or quote high. Daddy bought an attachment with a dial so instead of two settings, I also get to feel everything in between low and high. Yes, the original Hitachi plugs into the wall but I believe they offer a battery-powered, cordless version now. And if you think you can’t give sex toys as presents, I’ll have you know this was my Christmas present a couple of years ago. Best. Present. Ever!

I gush like a geyser when this thing is applied to my clit, and I writhe and scream like a crazy woman. It’s great! For forced orgasms and orgasming until you’re a wet noodle, there’s nothing better. And guys, I dare you to apply this to your cock. Daddy did, and that was probably the strongest orgasm he’s ever had.

Next is the suede flogger. Now, we have several floggers made of different materials – leather, paracord, you name it. But suede is my favorite because when applied lightly, it’s soft and soothing, but when a bit of speed and technique is added, it stings like a bitch. We have a small purple one that’s considered a warm-up flogger but somehow, he raises welts on my ass with it. We also have a set of black and white suede floggers that are big and get a good thud going on my butt. Some people like stinging pain, others like the thuddy kind. I’m squarely on the side of thuddy but since I’m a bit of pain slut, I’ll take the stings if that’s all he’s giving me that day.

In keeping with ass destruction, I don’t want to forget to mention paddles. We have two I like. We had three – one was a ping pong paddle but he broke it over my ass in the club one night so I won’t include it, but if you’ve got one or can find one cheap, try it out. OMG, it works wonders. The two remaining paddles are as different as night and day. One is rubber with two distinct sides: smooth and rough. I can tell the difference when he strokes my ass with it, but once he starts pounding on me, all I know is that it’s heavy and hurts. The other paddle is a wooden one he made, and will be producing more of next year. It’s long and slender and made of wood that’s not too heavy so you get more of a sting than a thud and it’s long enough to get all of my ass in one shot. He’s got a heavier one he’s working on that has me nervous just from the test taps he’s done with it.

We’re still talking about my ass, and I was forced, okay asked nicely, to mention Daddy’s favorite – a Delrin cane. It’s not too long, black, and hurts like a mother fucker. I’m not a fan of the cane but I do love the marks and bruises it leaves behind. For me to handle it without using my safeword, he has to warm me up good and mess with my other senses – edge me until I’m begging to come, then WHAM, the cane lands on my ass. Or he uses the Wartenberg wheel on my back and follows that sensation with the cane across my ass. The other option is to get me almost into subspace completely where I can handle more pain. Like I said, it’s his favorite more than mine, but it definitely makes an impact…uh….no pun intended.

Another toy we both love are glass dildos. They’re usually pretty which is always a selling point to me. Put them in hot water or in the freezer, and you’ve got instant sensation play. One night he placed a vibrator against my clit and fucked me with a cold glass dildo. My brain was immediate mush. It was great! It also cleans up well and can handle just about anything you do with it – vaginal penetration or anal (but not one right after the other, y’all!).

I’m adding two accessories to the list because they each have their uses even if they’re not toys.

Nipple charms are just pretty, and I really could use some more. When we were long distance, he’d have me wear them to work or when I went out and send him a picture. I always felt a little naughty and very decadent when I wore them. Some clamp onto your nipples while others have a sticky backing and stick to your areola and breast.

The other accessory I need to mention is lube. My body has changed over the past few years and I don’t always get as wet as I used to no matter how turned on I am. Lube is our new friend. Hell, if you ever plan on trying anal, you’re going to need it anyway. When I first started out, I used KY and Astroglide, both of which you can buy in Target and possibly Wal-Mart. Over the past couple of years, we’ve tried other brands and one of our favorites is Pink which comes in several varieties to use on toys, sensitive skin, you name it. Don’t feel embarrassed if you need to use it. Not getting wet doesn’t always mean your partner isn’t doing a good job. Women’s bodies are complicated things and sometimes, whether due to age or stress or whatever else, we don’t produce enough lubricant. It’s okay, really. Buy some and always keep it handy. We have our stash in the nightstand on Daddy’s side of the bed so it’s always close by – and still hidden away.

Okay, if you’re willing to pay for overnight shipping, you can still order toys for Christmas but if not, remember, there’s always Valentine’s Day, birthdays, anniversaries, or just because you damn well feel like it. I hope some of the toys are new to you and that you decide to give them a try. These are the toys and accessories that get the most play time in our bedroom and I highly recommend them.

That’s all for me this week. We will have episodes on Christmas and New Year’s – just fun little things not meant to educate anyone about anything, but they’ll feature both of us, so that’s always interesting.

Remember, sponsorships are available for the show, and I’m starting to schedule them out for 2016. Rates are very reasonable while we’re still a baby show. Contact me if you’re interested.

Ok, keep it kinky y’all, and we’ll see you next week!

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