When the Submissive Leads the Transition from Vanilla to D/s LB096

Episode 96 of Loving BDSM when a submissive leads the transition

In episode 96, we talk about transitioning your relationship from vanilla to kink when the submissive leads their Dominant partner – at least in the beginning as they’re learning. In this episode: Enter our 2 Year Anniversary giveaway! What does it mean when the submissive leads the transition to D/s Leading is not topping from…

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We’re Celebrating Two Years of Podcasts with a Giveaway!

Charlie Brown celebration

At the end of August 2017, the Loving BDSM podcast will have been a thing for two years. TWO?! Who knew when my shaky little voice appeared for less than 10 minutes back in 2015 that it would become an hour long program where we discuss the good, the bad, and the ugly about BDSM…

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5 Ways Submissives Can Support Their Dominants Who Are New to D/s

scrabble tiles spelling Dominants need support

Imagine the perfect world D/s scenario (from the perspective of at least one submissive I know): They meet a Dominant partner who knows exactly what they want, how to do all the kinky things, and isn’t afraid to (consensually) take what they want. As the submissive, you share your limits and desires, but your Dominant…

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Kinky Titles Are Different for All Of Us

Scrabble tiles to help spell out a kinky title

When you first figured out whether you were Dominant, submissive, or both (or none of the above), did you worry about what your title was? Did it matter to you? What about when you entered into your first relationship? Did you consider it unimportant or necessary to your identity to have a specific kinky title…

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Aftercare LB095

Aftercare LB095

This week for episode 95, the topic is aftercare – what it is, how to offer it, and how it’s different for everyone. In this episode: What is aftercare? How do you do it? When should you offer aftercare? Do Doms need aftercare? Making aftercare work for you Links from the show: Shop Loving BDSM…

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