Non-Sexual Moments of Consent

Consent is necessary for sexual contact but also in the non-sexual moments in life

[Content warning: We allude to or directly mention sexual assault, violence, and other situations that occur when consent is not given or gained. We do not describe any specific acts. Protect yourself as you need to. If today is not the day you can read this, take care of you first.] Right now, across social…

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Product Review: BDSM Journal

Video review of a BDSM journal

For many people, myself included, writing down our thoughts is a way to not only process them but also to get them out of our head. It gets loud in a crowded and sometimes anxious brain. Journaling can be an excellent way to explore, think, and even communicate. So when Mona Darling asked if we’d…

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Shifts and Changes in Kinks and Desires LB114

podcast episode on shifting kinks and desires as well as plans for 2018

We’re ba-aaaack! Did you miss us? We missed you! Episode 114 is technically two small episodes in one – the first half is about how our kinks, desires, and even identities can shift and change over time…and that’s normal! The second half focuses on the survey results and our plans for Loving BDSM in 2018…

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Survey Results and Plans for 2018

results are in for Loving BDSM survey and we've made plans for 2018

In what was definitely a spur-of-the-moment decision, we put out a survey at the end of 2017 to help us figure out what to do for 2018. We wanted to know if our ideas were on the right track and if there were things we’ve been missing. It’s one thing to run your own blog…

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Anal Sex Basics and Beyond

anal sex hints, tips, and tricks

When you come back from a vacation what’s the first thing you’re ready to talk about? If it’s “anal sex” then you’re living your best life which means I must be, too. We’re in time for the latest Kink of the Week topic and I’ve got thoughts about anal sex… Anal isn’t Everyone’s Kink I’ve…

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